One major problem that boyfriend and I back then was that we had no common ground. We have different taste in music – he likes rock, I liked mellow sounds. I love to sing and dance, he hates that idea. We were like heaven and earth. I like happy endings; he enjoys tragic. I’m happy-go-lucky, laidback; he needs to have plan a, plan b, and fallback.
We had broken up more than 13 times in 2 years span because of those differences. But I know there’s something in us that binds us together. I felt like we’re soulmates.
Over the years, I’ve learned to catch up with him. I have adapted his likes and his lifestyle. I’ve acquired his principles and priorities.
He also taught me how to go around the net. He even taught me how to do web programming, but I can’t seem to get it. So he thought of another way to teach me. And that’s how Fedhz.com came into life.
He set up Fedhz v1 but I wasn’t able to put things in there. I was too busy with my social life.
With this current blog, Home Buddies, made me realize that I can socialize in the blogosphere. I can go blog hopping and meet new interesting people from all over the globe!
Another good thing is that this blog made us closer. It served as a connection to each of our hobbies and passion – his programming and my writing. We can now relate to each other.
Having the baby is the greatest connection we have.
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That is the main reason why you survived, you have so many differences and yet you learned how to adjust for each other, learned how to compromise to meet each other’s day.. kaya tama ung sabi nila na opposites attracts.. because if you are opposite and does not even connect at all, you developed more through adjusting with each other..
ganyan din kame nijowa eh, he is the conservative one, I am like I am an artist and I hate the world type haha.. kaya nga when I go shopping at sinabi nya na mukhang basahan ang damit, buy na ako agad ahaha
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wow, that’s so sweet. 13 times grabe ha. you are made for each other talaga.